I'm a snob. I admit it. I've always been a snob to a certain level. My
snobbery, however, is specific. I enjoy debating with people. To debate with
people, you have to have people who don't agree with your positions. So I
definitely like people who disagree with me feeling free to disagree with me.
But like I said, I'm also a snob. And that means I don't have much toleration
for noise.
Being a snob means I tend to be rude when confronted with people who waste my
time. If, having written a lengthy article I'm confronted with a response from
someone nit-picking some grammar issue or some other triviality or someone
hijacking the conversation to go over to their pet cause I will tend to either
tell them to knock it off or just black list them from my blog depending on how
much respect I have for the original poster.
For instance, today, one guy responded to a couple page blog I wrote about
Europe with an insulting 1 line response. In my blog, I had written "France
hasn't actively helped the United States in nearly 300 years." Technically
it's only been around 225 years. But this person responded to my article
trying to insult my intelligence because I chose to round to 300 years instead
of say 200 years. As if we have to round to the nearest century. Or maybe I
should have said "going on 300 years" instead of "nearly". In either case, it
wasn't germane to the discussion. It was one of those things that gets on my
nerves.
I don't have that much free time. I do write a lot because I write at around
120wpm. So I'm particularly impatient with people who split hairs about
irrelevant issues. I don't want my time wasted reading their stuff and I don't
want my readers time wasted.
The reason I don't just make it impossible for anyone to respond to my
articles is because there are plenty of intelligent people out there who not
only disagree with my views but are able and willing to put together a coherent
argument. Those people may not always convince me of their perspective (though
sometimes they do) but they add value to the overall discussion and make us all
think. But I don't want the discussion watered down with mindless trolling so I
tend to try to weed out the trolls. If someone I've black listed shows
themselves to have grown beyond trolling, I can always let them post on my
articles again after all.
Someone asked me if people's articles who I initially disagree with ever
change my views. I said they have. Let me give you a few examples where
convincingly written articles have changed my views:
- Social Justice. When I was younger, I believed that the free
market could solve every problem. But over time, I cam realize that this was
not the case. I came to realize that from reading well argued left wing
articles on the net. They made a strong case that a free market, left alone,
results in a concentration of power just as perilous as any communist
dictatorship.
- Government intervention. Similarly, I have been convinced over the years
by well presented arguments that some jobs are just better left to the
government to handle. That while the government may be somewhat incompetent
at times, some things are better done when there is not a profit motive
involved. Determining what those projects are is difficult but I concede
there are cases where the government is the best agent for the project.
- Gay civil unions. From some of the articles here on JoeUser I have
slowly moved from believing that gays should not receive any special rights
to believing they should get civil unions to believing that civil unions
should be beefed up to have all the federal rights that marriage has.
I still don't believe that the term marriage should be re-defined into
including same sex couples but now it's purely a semantical argument.
- Understanding pro-life people. I've been so pro-choice for so long that
I tended to have contempt for people who held the pro-life position in my
younger years. But over time I have come to see where they are coming from.
I'm still pro-choice but I see the consistency in their position - if you
believe a fetus is a living thing with all the same rights as any child,
then their actions make sense. For me though I still don't recognize a fetus
as being a human life and draw the line much later. But that's just my
personal opinion (I rarely debate abortion because it's so tired).
- For awhile, I favored the US getting out of the UN entirely. While I
still consider the UN quite corrupt, I believe now that it is, overall, a
force for good in the world. I have come to that conclusion after reading
persuasive articles, from the left, of the merits of the UN in humanitarian
ways and as a forum for other people.
- I believe in progressive taxation. I used to believe in a flat tax
(which is still progressive in its own way). But I have read pieces that
were compelling in their reasoning that as you move away from the middle
class in financial ability, you get into diminishing returns. A billionaire
doesn't live 1000X better than a millionaire. But a millionaire certainly
lives 1000X better than someone who makes $1,000 per year. That's
diminishing returns in action and a result, I believe that at a certain
level of income that it being distributed, even forcibly does more good for
society than it does for the income earner. I don't believe taxes should be
as high as they currently are, I simply believe that it is good for the
richest to bear most of the burden.
My point is that I can be convinced of the merit of an opposing argument. But
everyone who's debated enough knows that the mind tends to shut itself closed
when attacked by zealots. And that's bad because the post right after the zealot
may be coming from someone whose reasonable and persuasive. But if you're still
irritated after having read some zealot's half-witted regurgitation of some
partisan's talking point sheet, you may not be open to listening to the well
reasoned points of the next person. And when that happens we all lose.
So I tend to have a short list of things that irritate me. Those who do it
enough end up not being able to respond on my blog. My blog as in
draginol.joeuser.com. Not the whole website. I don't ban people because they
irritate me. Only two people have ever been banned from JoeUser.com which I
think says a lot for our tolerance.
Here's that list of "Craptastic" argument styles:
- Truth by proclamation. I have seen people simply come on and say "If you
weren't so ignorant you would know why you're wrong." That's a potent
one-two of irritatingness right there. People who decide what the truth is
without feeling the need to even say what it is combined with asserting
their opponent's ignorance without proving it.
- Knowing how to argue in the first place. It's very simple: <assertion>
<evidence>. If you make an assertion you need to back it up by
evidence. Sometimes you don't need to use evidence if both parties agree
that you are an authority on the topic or if there is a general consensus on
the assertion. If I say the moon is not made of cheese I don't feel
the need to prove the moon isn't made of cheese. But if I say Bush was
behind the 9/11 attack I think the onus would be on me to back up that
statement with evidence.
- Crazy right-wing/left wing sites are not evidence. You really run into
this when debating with religious people (sorry but it's true). They're very
well organized and will pump out zillions of fringe websites where
"Scientists" will show the "Truth" of their position. Doubt this? Get into
an evolution debate and the websites explaining how evolution violates the
law of thermal dynamics or whatever comes up with "Scientists" explaining
this patiently.
- I don't care about your experience unless its demonstrating the truism
of a general reality. If you're some guy who "hates jews" I'm not going to
think you're not a bigoted fool simply because you can "prove they're evil"
because the one Jewish person you met was "into money". Or on the other
extreme, I don't have patience for boo-hoo arguments about some poor lady
whose was shot leaving her with 4 starving children as an argument of why we
need to spend more money on welfare -- unless the typical case of people on
welfare are mothers of 4 children whose husbands were murdered.
- Quips in general. Lots of people who can't argue confuse wittiness with
intelligence. Left-wingers tend to do this a lot for some reason. Here's a
typical one: User A: Saddam wasn't the legitimate government of Iraq, he
wasn't elected by the people." Loser A: "Kind of like Bush." That kind
of noise I have no use for. If you want to go and try to make the case that
Bush wasn't elected, go to your own damn blog and write it there. Don't
leech off my blog's popularity to try to get your personal fixation with
Bush unearned coverage. But that's just one case. Off-topic one line quips
really get on my nerves. Of course, I tend to do them too.
Those are 5 things that I know annoy the heck out of me when people do. And I
suspect if you talk to other seasoned bloggers they'll have a similar list.
Those of us who don't have a ton of free time on our hands tend to want a good
signal to noise ratio. Steven Den Beste's website used to have
commenting/forums. But he eventually tired of the idiocy that ended up coming up
as topics slowly morphed into crap. So he took down his forums. Luckily for us,
we have lots of tools to eliminate the wasters (black listing works not just by
account but by IP as well so they can't just log off and respond anonymously).
So there you have it, I'm a snob. I admit it. I'm not just a snob. I'm an
arrogant snob. The difference though is that I admit it. As you read the blogs,
you'll find that there are lots of arrogant snobs out there. But they don't tend
to admit it. We all have foibles. I'm not perfect by any means -- arrogance and
snobbery are not things I'm bragging about, they're admissions of guilt. All I
can do is do the best I can and write what I can with the limited time at my
disposal.