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Published on September 13, 2004 By Draginol In Personal Relationships

If you're reading this and you're in high school then let me tell you something: Those aren't the best days of your life.

My high school days were hellish for me. But I wouldn't have it any other way. They gave me a healthy chip on my shoulder. Sure, it's negative, it's ugly, and whatever. But it motivated me to work harder to succeed in life.

Since I was of the nerd class in high school, far down in the food chain and made to feel unworthy, there's a certain satisfaction at being successful in life. Success as in happiness, wealth, home life, future prospects, health, etc. But it didn't come easily. It took a lot of hard work over a long period of time. And I'm not ashamed to admit that part of the motivation to do that work was to right the injustices (real and imagined) of those earlier years.

So next time someone says that those are the best years of your life, pity them. They're not.


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on Sep 14, 2004

But insofar as you've stated that the teen years "should be [the best years of your life]", I disagree.

When I first stated about it being the best time of your life...I was actually meaning childhood in general...not just teens....Teens are still children as far as I can see...... though on the verge of adulthood...
Well here is where I will find a lot of disagreement....but I'm ready for it...
I think....I wish that every moment...every stage was the best time of everyones lives.....
OK throw your tomatoes ...I have my umbrella.........

Adolescence is where you start coming into your own, forming your adult personality, learning a lot of stuff about how the world really works and what you'll be doing in it. It's a huge, important transition, and transitions are never fun or easy.

I agree with that ....but.....if the world was different than it is today...and we were all more compassionate, tolerant and caring to every other person ( let's think hypothetically if you must) would it still need to be a difficult transition...can't we learn how to be adults and grow without having painful trials?
on Sep 15, 2004

can't we learn how to be adults and grow without having painful trials?
No, not  really.  Can you learn to walk without ever falling down?


The teen years will be painful and difficult no matter what utopia you live in.  Your body is changing, you have new responsibilities, you are learning about love (which is usually a difficult thing) and you are trying to find direction in life.  I don't know a single person that can say any of those things were easy.  I personally mourned the loss of childhood when I had to get a job and had the weight of getting into college grow heavy.


You can have the absolute best parents in the world and still have to make mistakes of your own to learn important life lessons.  Sure, with the right parenting you can avoid mistakes that will alter your life permanently but I don't know anyone who feels they never made a significant mistake or did anything stupid during their teen years.

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